Is it best to wait for love to happen or make love happen?

I feel that if I wait for love to happen that I'll be waiting for ever, but if I try to make love happen the person that I fall in love with may not really be in love with me.

So it's sort of a damn if you do & damn if you don't situation.

What do you think?    

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